Premature Ejaculation means early climaxing during intercourse without you and your partner feeling fulfilled. As shocking as I may sound, recent sex statistics have shown that 1 out of every 3 men suffered from premature ejaculation. And out of those suffering, 1 out of 3 ended up breaking up with their partners.

With that being said, what exactly are the symptoms?

Premature ejaculation can be classified into 2 categories as in primary and secondary.

Primary is often perceived as early coming within a minute or even seconds after starting intercourse. This often happens with men who never have sex before and tend to get excited and nervous easily. When you feel excited and nervous due to uncertainty and fascination, you tend to lose focus and confidence.

Secondary, on the other hand, happens with more experienced men when it comes to sex. They still ejaculate but not as fast as what they already had first time round. They are able to hold on and still be able to satisfy their women in the end.

After reading these, which category do you belong to? If you never had any experience in sex, more likely you may belong to the first though some men may prove me wrong.

The biggest cause of premature ejaculation is emotional stress and anxiety. They can be students who are facing peer pressure in studies or adults facing peer pressure in work.

Early peaking is a sight of them releasing tension.

Though this may seem natural to men, women does not think that way. That is why they come up with their term sex pervert even if they are not being molested or taken advantage of. But they cannot be blamed completely since their feelings are of weird and ridiculation.

Having said all these, it all boils down to your mentality and willpower. Men with stronger wills tend to endure longer whereas men with weaker wills tend to peak too soon.

If you need doctor’s advice and am not embarrassed to bring up this issue, you may do so since the doctor should be able to recommend the appropriate solution or just advice to help you manage this problem.

The most common treatments are natural sexual therapy and conditioning. Such as the squeeze technique to rewire your ejaculationary triggers or anti-depressants, topical anesthetic creams and sprays.

In a nutshell, premature ejaculation is very common and natural among men since men tend to get more excited than women. But even so, different men have different fitness levels and mindsets. What works for some may not work for others.

This is all you need to know about and how to fix premature ejaculation for now.